Your Circle of Friends Matters!

17th January 2025

Your Circle of Friends Matters!

Proverbs 13:20 – “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.”

The people we choose to surround ourselves with play a significant role in shaping our lives. Whether we realize it or not, our circle of friends has the power to influence our attitudes, our choices, and our spiritual growth. Proverbs 13:20 offers profound wisdom: “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” In other words, who we spend time with directly impacts who we become.

Friendship is a gift from God, and when chosen wisely, it can be a source of strength, encouragement, and growth. God designed us for relationship, not just with Him, but with others. In Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, we are reminded that “two are better than one… If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.” And Proverbs 18:24 says, “One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” God’s intention is for our relationships to be life-giving and mutually supportive. True friends are those who encourage us to pursue righteousness, build us up in our faith, help us keep our eyes fixed on Jesus and help us see things from a perspective we may have missed.

But not all friendships are beneficial and therefore it is vital for us to know we are loved unconditionally by God and He can provide others that will love us too. Some relationships, while enjoyable, may lead us away from God’s best for us. The Bible warns us about the dangers of surrounding ourselves with people who do not have a heart for God. In 1 Corinthians 15:33, Paul writes, “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.‘” Our circle of friends should challenge us to grow closer to Christ, not pull us away from Him. It’s essential to evaluate whether the friendships we have are helping us become more like Jesus or if they are leading us to compromise our values. Even Jesus, amongst His twelve disciples, chose a small circle of close friends with whom He shared His heart and mission.

The truth is, we often become like those we spend the most time with. This principle can be positive if we are walking with people who seek God wholeheartedly, encouraging each other to live according to His Word. These friendships are not merely for companionship or enjoyment, but for the purpose of sharpening one another, holding each other accountable, and helping each other become more like Christ. Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” A Christ-centered friendship should refine us, help us to more loving, patient, and compassionate, whilst we live out the calling God has placed on our lives, because we are continually pointing each other back to God’s truth.

That said, it’s important to have a balance. We are called to love and be a light to everyone, including those who don’t yet know Christ (Matthew 5:14-16). Jesus Himself spent time with sinners, not to conform to their ways but to bring them to repentance and salvation. As believers, we should be in the world but not of the world, influencing others with the love of Christ while guarding our own hearts from negative influences.

As you reflect on your own circle of friends, consider the impact they are having on your life. Are they pushing you toward deeper intimacy with God? Are they encouraging you to grow in godliness, or are they pulling you away from the truth? It’s not about rejecting friends who need Jesus, but about recognizing which relationships are contributing to your spiritual health, editing out those fire extinguishers and those who may be hindering your growth.

If you are finding that your circle of friends does not reflect the values that honour God, seek out relationships that encourage and strengthen your faith. Pray about your circle of friends and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit in choosing those you should closely fellowship with. Get involved church activities/ house fellowships, become a worker at church, or speak with our Pastors or Ministers who can mentor you and walk alongside you in your journey with Christ. The right circle of friends can help you grow in ways you never imagined.

Confession:
Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.

43 thoughts on “Your Circle of Friends Matters!”

  1. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Good morning Papa and thank you for this devotion

  2. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.Thank you for this powerful devotional. God bless you 🙏.

  3. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you pastor for this powerful devotional. More grace sir 🙏

  4. Confession:
    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.

  5. LORD, THANK YOU FOR THE GIFT OF FRIENDSHIP. I CALL FORTH THOSE WISE AND GODLY FRIENDS YOU HAVE PREPARED FOR ME TO LOCATE ME. I RECEIVE DISCERNMENT IN THE FRIENDSHIPS YOUR SPIRIT GUIDES ME TO AND I WALK WITH THOSE WHO POINT ME TOWARD YOUR TRUTH. I RECEIVE THE WISDOM TO BE A GOOD FRIEND TO OTHERS, OFFERING SUPPORT, LOVE, AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND MAY MY CIRCLE OF FRIENDS REFLECT YOUR LOVE, GRACE, AND TRUTH IN JESUS’ NAME,
    AMEN

    Thank you Pastor Enoch for the words of Wisdom

  6. Adelaide Nenguke

    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.Amen

    Thank you Pastor for this devotional.

  7. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you Papa, thank you Minister of the week, increased grace and strength.

  8. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Thank you so much for this devotion sir.

  9. Confession:
    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Wao. Thank you so much Papa for this excellent word of edification on our circle of friends. God bless you mightily Sir.

    Shalom my Father

  10. If you are finding that your circle of friends does not reflect the values that honour God, seek out relationships that encourage and strengthen your faith. Pray about your circle of friends and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit in choosing those you should closely fellowship with. Get involved in church activities/ house fellowships, become a worker at church, or speak with our Pastors or Ministers who can mentor you and walk alongside you in your journey with Christ. The right circle of friends can help you grow in ways you never imagined.

    Confession:
    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thanks Pastor for this valuable spiritual food.

  11. Increase Helen Agu

    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you pastor for this daily meal. More grace sir 🙏

  12. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen. Thank you so much for this devotion Sir ✝️🌻🎆🙏🏾

  13. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen. Help me oh God🙏🙏

    Thank you papa

  14. Olubunmi Onilenla

    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you Pastor, increased grace sir.

  15. The people you spend your time with will influence your life positively or negatively so make conscious efforts to choose your circle of friends who can help you grow, improve and be at your best.

    Thank you Pastor

  16. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Thank you for today’s devotion.

    We give God thanks 🙏🏾

  17. Father Lord glorify yourself in my cry for mercy. I pray that your mercy will cause my circle of friends to bring peace, grace and truth of JESUS closer to me in Jesus’s name. Amen.

  18. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Wow! Thank you so much Pastor for this thought provoking devotional Sir🙏🏽

  19. Lord thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you Pastor for this wonderful inspirational devotion.
    More grace Sir.

  20. Sean Connery Ukpaka

    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen. Thank you daddy

  21. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Good morning and thank you my pastor
    Always remain blessed sir

  22. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you Pastor

  23. Hallelujah hallelujah Glory be to God Almighty Thank you Father for your Holy Word today.
    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you Daddy ,for this powerful devotion
    More grace and strength.

  24. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you so much Pastor for this amazing devotional it has really blessed me

  25. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you pastor for this wonderful devotional x 🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  26. Amen and amen thank you sir for this wonderful daily devotional I learned that you should be wise with the friends you chose and have godly friends that will pull you to God in sted of pulling you away amen.

    Thank you sir so much amen

  27. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen. Thank you so much Papa. Increase grace sir

  28. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen. Thank you Pastor for this devotional.🙏

  29. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Thank you so much Papa for this deep devotion Sir, may the Lord continue increase and uphold you Sir.

  30. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Thank you sir for this devotion

  31. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.Thank you so much for the Devotion Papa,God bless you Sir🙏🔥.

  32. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen thank you Daddy for this powerful devotion May the Lord bless you in Jesus name more grace to make more devotion Amen 🙏 🙌

  33. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen. Thank you daddy for this powerful wonderful Devotion may the Lord bless you and keep you safe in Jesus precious name amen 🙏

  34. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, AMEN AND AMEN THANK YOU LORD FOR I WILL HAVE THE DISCERNMENT TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT FRIEND’S. THANK YOU DADDY FOR THIS POWERFUL DEVOTION.

  35. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen. Thank you so much Pastor Sir.

  36. wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Thank you Papa, more anointing sir

  37. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Hallelujah very powerful message 👏🏾 thank you sir more grace, you will finish well 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 ❤️

  38. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen. Thank you Pastor- God bless you 🙏🏽❤️

  39. Thank you Pastor for this powerful Devotion

    GOD I pray that I receive discernment to choose my circle of friends wisely, ensuring that they draw me closer to GOD and help me grow Spiritually and vice versa.

  40. Sotonwa Oluwagbenga

    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Thank you so much papa

  41. Confession:
    Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Thank you Pastor for this devotional😇❤️✝️🙏🏾🌹

  42. Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. I call forth those wise and godly friends you have prepared for me to locate me. I receive discernment in the friendships Your Spirit guides me to and I walk with those who point me toward Your truth. I receive the wisdom to be a good friend to others, offering support, love, and accountability and may my circle of friends reflect Your love, grace, and truth in Jesus’ name, Amen. Pastor Enoch for this wonderful devotion about Godly friendships 🙏🏾🙌🏾

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